08/01/2026
I want to share this today because I think it matters. Honestly, I have nothing to lose by just being real with you.
Almost nine years ago, I started Pinkies Up. I had relocated for a corporate job in a new city, and I did not know anyone. The only place I really found my footing and made friends was a local spot like Pinkies Up. I watched the GA laws evolve, and I knew what I wanted to do when I moved back.
The concept of places like Pinkies Up was not even legal in the state of GA before 2017, but I started it because I knew how much it meant to have a place to belong; I believed in the power of community.
Since we opened, we have weathered a global pandemic together. Right as the world was shutting down, my life changed completely when I was blessed with a ten-year-old kid. Today, I am balancing raising him, working back in the corporate world, and keeping this business going. I am doing my very best, but if I am being totally honest, there are days I question if what I do here still matters.
The last few years took a toll on all of us. We lost our sense of normal, but my biggest fear is that in our rush to get back to “normal”, we forgot what matters.
We were never meant to do life completely alone. We need a community so that when the cancer results come back or the “my job really sucks right now” happens, we have a community that is just there. It is incredibly easy to get hyper-focused on our daily schedules. But when the scary and happy parts of life happen, we need our tribe.
We are built to show up for one another. To gather, talk, and share in fellowship to remind each other that we are not carrying the weight of the world by ourselves. We are built with a shared purpose.
When you look at your schedule and think “you can’t”, know that it was never meant to be just the weight of the world on your shoulders. When the empty-nest syndrome stares you in the face, and you just need someone to show up with a pint of ice cream and a bottle of Cab, yeah, that’s the life currency.
In the midst of chaos and back to school schedules, don’t forget the humanity of if all.