South Jersey Queer Social

03/04/2026

Third Thursday – South Jersey’s Night OUT
📅 Thursday, March 19 | 6PM
📍 Oaklyn Manor
198 W Clinton Ave, Oaklyn, NJ

This month we’re heading to Oaklyn Manor, a neighborhood bar recommended by members of our community. Great food, great staff, easy vibe, and plenty of parking right across the street.

🍗 WING NIGHT: 10 Wings for $9.99
🍻 Full bar, solid drinks, no nonsense
🪑 Casual seating that makes it easy to bounce between conversations

Expect a laid-back crowd, good energy, and the kind of spot where you can actually hear each other talk. Come hungry, grab a drink, and settle in.

✨ Third Thursday is about visibility, consistency, and community. Show up solo, bring friends, meet new people, or just unwind with q***r folks who get it.

📣 Spread the word and bring your people.

Have a suggestion for a Third Thursday Host? Send us a message!

One night a month. One space at a time. Building community in South Jersey. 🏳️‍🌈💜

01/23/2026

Third Thursday – South Jersey’s Night OUT
📅 Thursday, February 19 | 6PM
📍 The Tap Room
427 W Crystal Lake Ave, Haddonfield Township, NJ 08033

Third Thursday heads to The Tap Room this February.

Expect a laid-back neighborhood spot with good drinks, zero attitude, and plenty of room to settle in, mingle, and actually hear each other talk. This is the kind of place where conversation flows, the bar staff knows what they’re doing, and the vibe stays easy all night.

🍽 Come hungry. Food is available and the menu holds its own.
🍻 Full bar with real options, no nonsense.
🪑 Casual seating throughout, perfect for bouncing between chats.
🌙 Relaxed, social energy that works whether you stay an hour or close the place down.
✨ Third Thursday is about consistency, visibility, and community. Show up as you are. Come solo, bring a friend, meet someone new, or just decompress with q***r folks who get it. No pressure, no performance.

📣 Spread the word. Bring your people.

One night a month. One space at a time. We’re building something real in South Jersey.

11/07/2025

🌈 THIRD THURSDAY – SOUTH JERSEY’S NIGHT OUT
🎉 2-Year Anniversary Celebration!
📅 Thursday, Nov 20 | 6PM | Treno, Haddon Township

We’re celebrating TWO YEARS of bringing the LGBTQ+ community of South Jersey together for connection, cocktails, and good vibes — and this month we’re heading to Treno!

🍕 Come early for great food and drinks — enjoy Treno’s full menu, then join us in the back-bar areas once you’re fed and ready to mingle!

✨ Every Third Thursday is about showing up as you are, meeting incredible people, and keeping our q***r community thriving.

💬 Tag your crew, grab a table, and come celebrate with us — this one’s gonna be special!

***rSouthJersey

03/31/2025

🏳️‍⚧️ Celebrating Trans Men on Trans Day of Visibility! 💙

On Trans Day of Visibility (March 31), we honor and uplift trans men and transmasculine people who have been essential in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights. Their contributions, resilience, and courage have shaped history—and continue to shape our future.

🔹 Lou Sullivan – A pioneering advocate who founded FTM International, the first organization dedicated to trans men, and fought for visibility in medical and social spaces.

🔹 Kylar Broadus – A legal powerhouse who founded the Trans People of Color Coalition and was the first openly trans person to testify before the U.S. Senate.

🔹 Billy Tipton – A trailblazing jazz musician who lived as his authentic self despite societal barriers, proving that trans men have always existed and thrived.

Trans men are leaders, activists, creators, and community builders. They belong in the LGBTQ+ movement, and their visibility is vital in the ongoing fight for equality.

🌟 Today and every day, we see you. We celebrate you. We stand with you. 🌟

03/31/2025

🏳️‍⚧️ Trans Day of Visibility: Honoring Our History, Protecting Our Future 🏳️‍⚧️

As we celebrate Trans Day of Visibility, let’s take a moment to remember that none of us in the LGBTQ+ community would have the rights we do today without the bravery of trans women at Stonewall.

It was trans women of color like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera who stood on the front lines, fighting back against police brutality and discrimination. Their courage ignited a movement—one that still continues today.

Visibility isn’t just about being seen; it’s about honoring our past, uplifting trans voices, and ensuring a future where all trans people can live freely and safely. As attacks on trans rights escalate, it’s more important than ever to show up, speak out, and stand in solidarity.

To our trans siblings: We see you. We stand with you. We fight for you. Always.

03/08/2025

🌸 Celebrating LGBTQ+ Women on International Women’s Day 🌸

On March 8th, we honor the women who have fought tirelessly for equality—not just for themselves, but for all of us. Their leadership, advocacy, and resilience have shaped the progress we see today.

📚 Barbara Gittings – A Philadelphia-based le***an activist, organizer of the Annual Reminder protests, and a key figure in declassifying homosexuality as a mental disorder.

🌟 Gloria Casarez – A Latina le***an activist and Philadelphia’s first Director of LGBT Affairs, who championed housing, healthcare, and anti-discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ people.

📢 Miss Major Griffin-Gracy – A lifelong advocate for incarcerated trans women and marginalized LGBTQ+ communities, ensuring their voices are heard.

🎤 Leslie Feinberg – Author of Stone Butch Blues and a groundbreaking voice in le***an and transgender activism.

⚖️ Urvashi Vaid – Pioneering activist and leader who worked fighting for legal rights, racial justice, and intersectional advocacy for decades.

💜 Stormé DeLarverie – A butch le***an and drag king often credited with throwing the first punch at Stonewall, ensuring that LGBTQ+ people were not erased from history.

🏳️‍🌈 Sip City South Jersey – Today, we also celebrate the incredible women of Sip City South Jersey, who work tirelessly to create safe spaces and community events for q***r and non-binary women in South Jersey. Their dedication ensures that women remain visible, included, and celebrated in LGBTQ+ spaces.

Today and every day, we recognize the power of women in our community. There are countless other women and we thank you all for your leadership, strength & fight.

01/21/2025

🌈 Stay Connected with Us 🌈

In today’s political climate, we understand that many in our community are stepping away from traditional social media platforms. Your safety and well-being come first, and we fully support whatever choices you make to feel secure. 💕

But remember, you’re not alone. We want to stay connected and keep you informed about LGBTQ+ events happening right here in South Jersey.

📩 Let us know where you’re migrating to and sign up for email updates by filling out this short form: https://forms.gle/Wy4WQ8JMicKttb1Z9

We’re here for you—always. Stay strong, and let’s keep building a supportive, vibrant community together. 🌟

Given the current political climate and the apparent alignment of the Billionaire Oligarch Class with the current administration, many in our community are stepping away from traditional social media platforms. We fully support any decisions you make to prioritize your safety and well-being. We want...

01/15/2025

✨ Third Thursday - South Jersey's Night OUT is Tomorrow! ✨🌈

Join us on Thursday, January 16th at for our monthly LGBQ+ gathering! We're bringing a fresh vibe with new music playlists to keep the energy high and the fun flowing. 🎶💃

While we wait for our patio to return for live music, come vibe with us indoors, connect with the community, and make it a night to remember. 🥂🎉

See you there—don’t miss the fun! 🏳️‍🌈💕 ***rGathering

12/28/2024

20 members of ***rconnections had an absolutely fabulous evening last night! We laughed, sang, and celebrated the season with the hilarious during their unforgettable Christmas Feast of the Seven Fishes. It was a night filled with laughter, and community—everything we could hope for and more. We need to remember to take more photos of our events!

We’re excited about the idea of making this show an annual tradition, bringing our community together to support and celebrate incredible Q***r Artists 💜.