10/22/2026
Remembering Nardy: - A Message from Chris Berres
What a wonderful visitation for Nardy. So much love was shown for him. I know many people wanted to come but couldn't. No worries. Nardy loved you, and he knew how you felt about him.
I just wanted you all to know about Nardy's journey with dementia. I was with him from the very beginning when we heard the diagnosis back in 2020.
Nardy progressed over the next six years, but it was gradual. Nardy never showed any sadness or suffering with his disease.
When I could no longer care for him by myself in my home, I found the perfect place for him: The Legacy. He absolutely LOVED it there. Although he lost his ability to speak, he still understood what you were saying and knew what he wanted to say; he just could not convey it. But he was STILL Nardy! He still tried to make people laugh, and he enjoyed the social life with the other residents and staff. Nardy was very content, and everyone there loved him. He was so sweet with the female residents. I would see him just holding their hands or walking two ladies back from an event, holding their hands. That was Nardy—so caring and loving to everyone there. I was there with him almost every day (sometimes I had to take a "me day"). I wanted to spend as much time with him as I could while he was on this Earth. I was blessed to be able to do that. I was blessed to be his partner for almost 16 years.
My main point in posting this is to reassure everyone who loved him that he was still our "Nardy" right up until the end. We shared our quiet, private space together through those final moments, and I was blessed to hold him in my arms as he took his last, ever so peaceful breath.
He and I could still make each other laugh, whether it was leg wrestling or silly, fast-patting each other on the arm. My favorite memory was when we would sit out in the garden and Nardy was just jibber-jabbing away at me. I would say to him, "Honey, I wish I could understand what you are trying to say, but I can't. So would you just shut the f**k up?" We would both burst out laughing.
Nardy did NOT suffer with his dementia. He was happy and at PEACE with it all.
Chris Berres