08/27/2026
Before we were on this side of the bar we spent many a night on the other side of the bar watching our favorite bands play at the Blue Grouch. Always a fun place thanks to the wonderful owners and staff.
Our hearts are broken to hear of Jeff's passing and our sincere condolences to Jeff's family and loved ones.
Please keep the Blue Grouch family in your thoughts and prayers.
“Last monday evening my world changed forever. My husband Jeff — who had a heart of gold and was the soul of the Blue Grouch — is gone. I don’t have the right words yet, and maybe I won’t for a long time, but I need everyone to know how deeply he was loved… and how deeply he will be missed.
The Blue Grouch wasn’t just a bar to him. It was his dream, his community, his second family. So many of you were part of his everyday life, and I’m grateful for every laugh, every story, every night you spent supporting what we have built.
Right now, I’m doing my best to breathe through the shock and the deep ache. I know how much you all care, and I feel that love — truly. But I also need a little space while I try to steady myself and figure out what comes next. Please be patient with me. Please give me time.
Hold each other close tonight. Tell the people you love that you love them. And when you raise a glass, raise one for him.
Thank you for understanding.
Thank you for loving him.
Thank you for giving me room to grieve.”