06/01/2026
Harlen Dobyns was born to William and Rosa Dobyns January 12, 1922, the fourth of six children to reach adolescence. Harlen lived his entire life in Lawrence County, attending various country schools with his brothers until they were old enough to start earning a paycheck to help support the family during the Great Depression.
Harlen was a lanky young man with an ornery smile when he met Irene Basham, whose family lived just northwest of Aurora. They married in 1943 when both were 21 years old. Harlen and Irene had a year together before he enlisted in the Army. We can only imagine the depth of emotions that overcame the young couple, as they were expecting their first child when Harlen left home to do his part in the war. He fought in the Philippines but never discussed his time there until a granddaughter interviewed him for a school assignment about the time of his 75th birthday, when he relayed bits and pieces of his story to the family.
When Harlen came home in 1946, he embraced his life as a father to his two year old daughter and over the next decade he and Irene added two more daughters and a son to the family. A second son was stillborn in 1959 before they began welcoming grandchildren in 1964.
Harlen worked at the Farmers’ Exchange for a while before taking a job at Juvenile Shoe where he stayed for well over 30 years, maintaining and repairing machinery by day and farming after hours.
Irene was taken by cancer in 1969, leaving Harlen with two teenagers still at home. A few years later, Irene’s family convinced him to meet a lovely widow named Dorothy. They hit it off from the start and married in 1974. Dorothy introduced Harlen to travel, something he’d never really appreciated. In their 41 years together they visited every state of the union. Dorothy gave Harlen’s family the gift of time, as being a nurse, she monitored his health and made sure he did, too. They settled in at The Ozarks Methodist Manor in Marionville for over 20 years, first in a cottage then in an apartment, until Harlen’s death in 2015. Dorothy chose to remain there until her death ten years later. She had shared with him the joy of a wandering spirit and he had shared with her the love of his family and the strength of his deep Lawrence County roots.
Thank you to all veterans and their families who have sacrificed so much for all of us.