21/11/2024
A good celebrant is worth their weight in gold.
What you see- A person standing up reading a script and then leaving the ceremony. There for an hour or two, max. Easy as, right?
What you don't see- the meetings with couples prior to make sure I am getting the right vibe for their ceremony, and we're on the same page.
The hours upon hours of writing ceremonies, editing and refining until perfect.
The email constantly bouncing around in my inbox discussing ceremony plans.
Not just responding to enquiries, but helping people find other celebrants if I'm unavailable, or supporting them with choosing other vendors for their day.
The constant reminders pinging on my phone, ensuring I am not forgetting to do something like send a reminder to apply for your license or to confirm the items you are hiring from me.
The rehearsals, that sometimes take 30mins but also can go well over an hour.
Packing and repacking my bag the day before a wedding, triple checking I have everything.
The constant anxiety that I have forgotten something, or that I am not going to do the ceremony the justice it deserves.
Reading the scripts as I do jobs around my house to ensure I am confident with it.
Planning my outfits so that I blend in with your day.
Supporting nervous brides and grooms on the day so they feel calm, even though sometimes I am riddled with anxiety on the inside.
Navigating family/guest conflicts on the day of a wedding, ensuring everyone is able to enjoy the day.
Time away from my son during summer.
I constantly see celebrants be undervalued on wedding forums, because we just have to "show up on the day". I wanted to be real with you. It's an amazing job, and can be as easy or as hard as you make it. But nothing amazing ever came from it being easy. Your celebrant is worth everything you pay and more. They can make or break your ceremony. And trust me, they are terrified of being the break.
I put everything into this mahi, I truly adore it. There's so many layers to it, more than I could list. But I am here to make sure my couples feel amazing, excited, calm and joyous on their day.
I am worth my weight in gold.
Taking limited bookings for 2025/2026 season 💕