06/07/2026
They say that anger is just love disappointed
They say that love is just a state of mind
But all this fighting over who is anointed
Oh, how can people be so blind?
Oh, they tell me there's a place over yonder
Cool water running through the burning sand
Until we learn to love one another
We will never reach the Promised Land
—From “Hole in the World” by the Eagles
Hi folks,
Kirk Bangstad here, owner of the Minocqua Brewing Company.
I’ve been writing essays each Sunday for about 6 years now, and that practice of slowing my mind down and taking stock of the world around me has become my “Church.”
I love going to church if there’s beautiful classical music being performed, but I haven’t yet found that while living in Madison and Minocqua—so writing has become my way of filling my spiritual bucket.
As I was taking stock of last week, the first theme that popped into my head was hatred, which prompted me to seek out a song by the Eagles called “Hole in the World.” After listening to it, I feel I’ve been back to church and can grapple with the theme of “hatred” with grace.
The amount of hatred I’ve received from the progressive left after announcing that I was running for Governor in Wisconsin has been alarming.
One might argue that I invite much of this vitriol onto myself because I have a knack for not being able to “choose my battles." I basically argue with every group that disagrees with me—progressive or republican—when I think I’m right.
For example, I probably should have just zipped my lips before telling a bunch of young, progressive activists in Madison who were trying to rescue tortured beagles to “respect Ridglan Farm’s property rights instead of stealing their dogs,” but I digress.
Of course, picking fights with everyone is a recipe for retaliation, and because I seldom think I’m wrong (“you can always tell a Harvard man, but you can’t tell him much"), people of all political stripes enjoy knocking me down a few pegs. I get it, and I’ve got pretty thick skin as a result.
That being said, I’ve been surprised at the number of “old cis white man” attacks made against me over the last month. Below are just a few examples from a article I wrote last Thursday expressing SUPPORT for fellow progressive gubernatorial candidate Francesca Hong over a hit piece written by the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel about her credit card debt. There have probably been a hundred more racial insults like these leveled at me over the last month.
Now, I absolutely get it.The Venn diagram of people who are trying to kill American Democracy, turn the working class into serfs, and us “old cis white men” is basically three overlapping circles; and those who’ve marginalized women, people of color, and the LGBTA+ community throughout American history have looked a lot like me.
Obviously, “old cis white men” are and have been the most privileged cohort in American society, and it’s completely rational that many of those who haven’t been born into this group are angry at us.
Because we’ve done so much harm over the years, I believe it’s incumbent upon “old cis white men” to use our privilege to BE EXTRA VOCAL about pushing for equality of opportunity in America.
Unfortunately, that belief is not shared by a sizable percentage of urban progressives. Instead of welcoming progressive “old cis white men” into their tent, they’d rather we just sit down and shut up.
Now, if one lived in New York City, that theory might just work. Only 30.9% of them are white, meaning that white men only make up about 15% of the city’s population. Given that white men vote Republican more than any other group, it might actually be a good strategy in New York City to tell us to “sit down and shut up.”
Unfortunately for urban progressives in Madison and Milwaukee, Wisconsin is not New York City. We’re the 13th “whitest” state in America.
86% of Wisconsin is white, meaning that 43% are white males. one out of 10 of us is statistically gay, and older people historically vote a heck of a lot more than younger people.
I think you know where I’m going here.
In Wisconsin, progressives need “old cis white men” to win elections, and if the progressives among us are told to sit down and shut up, the void created will be filled with MAGA “old cis white men,” because there’s a heckuva lot of those guys angrily shouting at the sky.
The graph below shows a 32% shift among young men towards the Republican party from 2018 to 2024.
Now, since I’m a battle-hardened progressive, there’s nothing that some young urban progressive can say to me that’s going to turn me into a Republican, but it’s not hard to imagine that the vitriol directed towards white men in progressive social media circles has played some role in driving younger, more impressionable ones into the arms of Trump.
Given what I’ve read over the last month, I can see why. If the rhetoric you hear day in and day out from one side chastises you for the sins of your fathers, while the other side is telling you that your rightful place is at the top of the pyramid, it’s pretty obvious which argument is more attractive.
So progressives, as desperate as day-to-day life has become in America because old white men at the top of the pyramid have screwed us in every way possible, I encourage you to summon a little grace for those white men who are on your side.
Let’s not create a “hole in the world” of progressive activism by excluding cis white men from our big tent. We want to help, and in a world where our voices are naturally amplified because of our privilege, let us fight with you. To quote the Eagles, who I’d argue is the whitest band in American history, “They say that anger is just love disappointed.”
I know that your “love” has been disappointed by us white guys over and over throughout the years, and that disappointment has led to “anger.” I’m hoping that your anger is met with redemption, as we work with you and fight hard to get all the rights that have been taken away from you back.
E pluribus unum—Out of many, one.
We’ve never quite lived up to our country’s motto, but we have to keep trying.
Now I’m going to go touch grass and a little lake water to help shed the anger that creeps inside me from spending too much time on social media. I’m hoping you can too, and that we can figure out a way to snipe at each other a little less next week.
Thanks for reading, and thanks for sticking with the Minocqua Brewing Company.
Together, let’s focus on “loving one another so we can reach the Promised Land,“ one beer at a time.
Kirk Bangstad
Owner, Minocqua Brewing Company/Minocqua Marketplace
Candidate for Governor, Wisconsin