01/02/2018
What would you advice?
Dear family, I need your help as this issue is directly on my head since my friend believes in my words advise and encouragement so much.
Since November I have been fully involved in the planning of my friend’s wedding that will be coming up by February ending. My friend loves her so much that he can kill for her.
Last Sunday we called for committee of friends meeting and we decided to change location, (use different joint not our usual) which is a little far from our area. As we sat down waiting for others to come for the meeting, my friend sighted a guy and a girl in a cuddling position although "small cold de dat Sunday evening". He quickly asked me if I can recognize the girl with that young man. I told him I have poor vision at night, but I recognized the lady who happens to be his wife to be.
I tried to remove his mind off them but he insisted on going to meet her. I stopped him and told him to call her and see if she will lie. His fiancée mentioned the name of same place but said she is with her ashuebi girls and my guy told her to wait for him there so he can pick her up. Hmm that is where the problem started, babe don de rush to discharge her Ex, as they were just standing by the guys car kissing goodbye so she can wait for the pickup. My friend walked pass in front of them and greeted them politely.
He immediately called off the meeting that day and we left.
He wanted to call off the wedding, lamenting his supposed wife told him that he stopped seeing and talking with her EX for the past six months only to catch them kissing and cuddling in an open joint (beer parlour).
He has been avoiding this girl and changed his locks, but I humbly advised him not to escalate this if he will eventually forgive her.
My friend has been in my house since then and hasn't been himself.
Should he call off the wedding or forgive her?
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